The Scheduling Of A Friendship?
I must say, I'm not too excited about the idea of returning back to school, after such a relaxing Spring Break. Personally, I don't think you have to always be busy, in order to enjoy a break. By that, I mean that I don't feel I have to go on a trip with my family, or hang out with my friends, to properly enjoy a break. I've always thought, if I see my friends, I'll begin to think of school, which is usually the image I want to erase during a break. Not to say, I don't enjoy school, but then one think happens after another. I could be hanging out with my friends, and out of nowhere begin thinking about homework, or my teachers. It's actually, really crazy. Luckily, I didn't have any homework.
My friends and I had plans, to hit the movie theater, and see the Lazarus Effect. Like many others, it's actually pretty hard, to get my friends involved in anything. Not that they aren't open to it, but with busy schedules and strict parents, it can get rough at times, when it comes to doing events together. With this being my last year at middle school, it puts a lot of pressure towards my relationship with my friends. I don't want to lose them, because they're like my closest friends ever. Anyway, that's the whole reason, as to why, I really want to do a lot with my friends currently. We've really been trying to make movie plans, as there are so many new releases. I've never been one to see movies, and the whole plan came about the Friday, before Spring Break. My friends suggested Fifty Shades Of Grey, Selma, Lazarus Effect, Unfriended, and Get Hard, while I suggested Home. I was never one to really see movies, when I was younger. I only recall seeing about seven or eight movies, at the movie theater. Not much exactly. With seeing "Home," I thought I would really be able to relive my childhood, regarding movies. (lol) Also, this is, I believe the first Dreamworks Production, that involves a black leading character in a cartoon that's a female. (That was a lot..) Of course, 1/2 of my friends were on for the idea of seeing Home, but I gotta admit, I wanted to see Unfriended too. We were suppose to see the Lazarus Effect, the previous week, and of course, things really went downhill, with the weather. One of my friends, who planned on going was sick. Also, some of my friends were enjoying the break. I'd rather hang out with my grandma. I mean, I saw the plan going downhill, and I'm usually one, who sees it as all or none, which is why much of the stuff we have planned goes downhill. At times, I feel like my friends are never getting to live. I hear how they're quick to turn down something, due to their schedule. I even tend to worry, how our lives will be like around our 20s. Do any of you experience the same troubles in your friendships?